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Writer's pictureRenee Spencer

Are You in a Cult and Don’t Even Know It? How to Tell the Difference Between Playful Pups and Ravishing Wolves

Updated: Sep 29

When you hear the word “cult,” your mind might instantly picture dark rituals, strange beliefs, and leaders demanding absolute devotion. But what if I told you that not all cults are out to devour you like the Big Bad Wolf? Some are more like playful puppy dogs—friendly, enthusiastic, and mostly harmless. Let’s dive into the differences between these two types of cults, and why it’s important to know whether you’re dealing with an excitable pup or a ravishing wolf.


Cults with a Little “c” — The Playful Pups of the Pack


Little Red Riding Hood playing with a happy pup

Think of cults with a little “c” as the playful puppies of the group world. These are the clubs and communities where people come together, united by a shared passion or interest, like a bunch of happy pups frolicking around. They’re wagging their tails, full of energy and excitement, and most importantly, they’re not out to bite.


These puppy dog cults might include everything from a dedicated fan club for a band, to a gardening group that’s obsessed with growing the perfect tomato, or even a quirky meetup for people who believe pineapple belongs on pizza (controversial, I know). They’re intense in their enthusiasm, like a puppy trying to lick your face off, but ultimately, they’re just having fun. They want to share their excitement and maybe convince you to join in the play, but they’re not going to trap you in their doghouse.


You can run around with these pups, have a laugh, and leave whenever you like. They don’t mind—they’ll just find someone else to toss the ball for them. No loyalty pledges required, no deep secrets to uncover. Just a bunch of like-minded folks enjoying the game. Sure, they can be a little yappy sometimes, but that’s about as dangerous as they get.


Cults with a Big “C” — The Ravishing Wolves


Little Red Riding Hood being controlled by a ravishing wolf

Now, let’s talk about the other kind of cults—the ones with a big, menacing “C.” These are the wolves in the story, lurking in the shadows, ready to pounce and sink their teeth into your freedom. They’re not here to play fetch; they’re out to control, manipulate, and consume every part of your life.


These wolves are led by cunning, charismatic leaders who know exactly how to lure you in. At first, they might seem friendly, just like a puppy wagging its tail. They’ll offer you warmth, community, maybe even a sense of purpose. But before you know it, the door slams shut, and you’re trapped in their den. That welcoming smile turns into a predatory grin as they start demanding more and more from you—your time, your money, your loyalty.


Wolves with a capital “C” use coercive control to keep you in line. They’ll isolate you from your friends and family, manipulate your thoughts, and make you feel like you can’t survive without the pack. They’ll claim they have all the answers, that they’re the only ones who can keep you safe, that you have to follow them to avoid a terrible fate. They’ll twist the truth, play on your fears, and before you know it, you’re deep in the forest with no idea how to find your way out.


The Confusion: Puppy or Wolf?


It’s easy to see why people get confused when talking about cults. After all, puppies and wolves are both canines, right? Similarly, little “c” and big “C” cults can both involve a sense of community and belonging. But the difference between them is as stark as a cute little Chihuahua and a ravenous wolf.

The playful pups of the little “c” cults don’t demand your entire life. They don’t isolate you, punish you, or make you feel afraid. They just want to share their enthusiasm and maybe get you to throw the ball a few times. You can leave anytime you want, and the worst that’ll happen is they’ll whine for a moment before finding another friend to play with.


But the wolves? They want to keep you forever. They’ll use every trick in the book to make sure you stay with the pack, no matter what. Leaving a big “C” Cult isn’t as simple as walking away from an annoying pup—it’s more like trying to escape the clutches of a hungry wolf. And that’s why it’s so important to know which one you’re dealing with.


Spotting the Wolves in Disguise


So, how do you tell if you’re playing with a pup or facing a wolf in disguise? Ask yourself these questions:


  1. Does the leader demand absolute loyalty and obedience? If yes, you might be looking at a wolf.

  2. Are you encouraged to cut off ties with people outside the group? Wolves like to isolate their prey.

  3. Does the group control what information you can access? Wolves want you to see only what they show you.

  4. Are you shamed or punished for questioning the group? Wolves won’t tolerate anyone challenging their authority.

  5. Is there a strong “us vs. them” mentality? Wolves keep their pack close and mistrust outsiders.


If you answered yes to any of these, you might be dealing with a wolf in puppy’s clothing. Puppy dog cults don’t ask for much beyond a little shared excitement and maybe a silly group chant or two. But a wolf? A wolf wants to own you, body and soul.


For a more in depth approach to how to spot a cult, check out Renee's Cult Ranking Criteria.


Why This Distinction Matters


Knowing the difference between a playful pup and a ravishing wolf could be the key to keeping your freedom intact. Puppy dog cults are a bit yappy and sometimes overwhelming, but they won’t hold you down. Wolves, though—they’re a different story. Once you’re in their grasp, it can be hard to get away.


So, next time you’re invited to join a group, take a moment to assess whether you’re looking at a playful pup or a ravenous wolf. It’s fun to join the puppy pack, but when it comes to wolves, you need to keep your distance and stay alert.


Remember, stay curious, stay cautious, and always know what kind of canine you’re dealing with—because even in the world of cults, it’s better to be safe than sorry! 🐶🐺





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